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Finding My Why

  • alyshakaplan
  • Apr 1
  • 2 min read

People sometimes ask why I care so deeply about old dollhouses. For a long time, I wasn't sure I could answer. I knew I loved restoring them. I loved uncovering forgotten craftsmanship and imagining what a house could become. But that wasn't the whole story. There was something deeper drawing me in, and I couldn't quite put it into words.


Looking back now, I can see the answer had been unfolding from the very beginning.


Heather's house was the first to stop me in my tracks. Tucked inside that old, neglected dollhouse were handwritten notes from the father who had built it for his children.

Suddenly, the house wasn't just wood and paint. It became an act of love that had survived long after the moment it was created.






Then came Lily's house—a father had built it for his children, but they never even knew it existed. The house waited quietly for years, carrying a story that had never been finished.





Donna's house held a different kind of story. It wasn't about a father. It was about a dream. For more than thirty years, her dollhouse sat unbuilt in a garage while life moved forward. When the time was finally right, that dream was still waiting.






Francesca's house reminded me that some dreams begin in childhood and stay with us for a lifetime. Restoring her house wasn't simply about creating beautiful rooms. It was about helping fulfill something she had carried in her heart for many years.


Each of those houses moved me in ways I couldn't explain. I thought I was reacting to the craftsmanship. I wasn't.




Then the 1988 Houseworks Victorian arrived.


Construction had begun in 1989 before life intervened. A father had carefully chosen the components for his only daughter, hoping they would one day build the house together. He passed away before that could happen. The house remained unfinished for decades, and eventually his daughter made the difficult decision to let it go.


As I worked on the house, something finally became clear. It wasn't the dollhouses that had been speaking to me all along. It was the love they carried, the dreams they represented, the memories they protected and the people who had poured part of themselves into something they hoped would outlive them.


In that moment, I finally understood why preserving these houses mattered so much to me. I'm not simply restoring dollhouses. I'm helping carry stories forward.


That realization changed the direction of Maple & Moss Miniatures. It changed the way I looked at every restoration that followed. For the first time, I realized I wasn't collecting dollhouses. I was collecting stories. I didn't know where that realization would lead. I only knew I couldn't stop thinking about it.


Every house has a history.

Some histories are written in photographs.

Some are hidden inside old boxes.

Some are found in handwritten notes.

Others are carried quietly in the hearts of the people who built them, loved them, or finally found them years later.

Those are the stories I hope to preserve.

Because in the end, it was never just about the houses.

 
 
 

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